Recovery is the conscious awareness of truth.This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study TENSTAGE+ STAGES CHILD WITHIN EVENTS AND FORUM
The illusions of the “special relationship” and the need to constantly search for completion. Says that we try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves. They become our replacement. A…
Re-parenting the burgeoning consciousness of the child within his own self is painful but the most rewarding as the intuitive voice gains strength and power in recovery. …
This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study The 10 Stages.We gather together to support each other in healing from addictions, compulsions, and dysfunctional, self …
sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognised in our bigger problems with joy and pleasure? Sex typicall…
The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing. To grieve. To feel. To learn your internal stumbling blocks. To know yourself. To devote yourself mind, body, and spirit …
Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep, lulling your unresolved childhood traumas back into their repressed caves in the unconscious. But healing ultimately saves your life, whereas masturbation ulti…
Masturbation is risky for anyone with unhealed childhood wounds that is, all of us who are not yet fully recovered. Although our biology plays a part in motivating us to express ourselves sexually, o…
Dissing/disassociation is acquired awareness of what hurts a logical solution to an open question. Related articles We become very uncomfortable that this study course would dare to contradict everyt…
In the reinstatement of the valued child within we have to be careful of the dropping of the “old self” that we sometimes are calling freedom is not the re-enactment of the neglect and abandonment ex…
Let me tell you just one thing: as long as I was working with the old traumatised self, as long as I was trying to change or improve the old self, I was getting nowhere. I had to drop it. And when I …
When we are dissociated/escaping we are not at peace with ourselves at all. WE are haunted by anxiety and stress of having to keep escaping our genuine feelings and of having to pretend to be happy a…
The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas in an unconscious urge to somehow solve them. The repetition compulsion is an urge that so often dooms us, because it, lik…
There really is nothing remotely Like TENSTAGE+: all bad decisions we make, even our reenactments of our wrong life threatening decisions offer us a chance to learn. And here is the hope, the simple …
TenStage TopicWe make the discovery we have the power to take charge of our lives and stop being dependent on substances or other people for our self-esteem and security.Magazines, catalogues, junk m…
A good parent self-reflects, and uses this as her basis for nurturing those less mature on their journey toward autonomy. A good parent does not exploit others for her own unmet needs, and use her ch…
This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to be able, discuss and study the 10 Stages of Discovery.We seek to create an area of truth,trust and consent to be able to allow the child within…
