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We who deny our deep inner world never acknowledge the source of these conflicts—our own childhoods.

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The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma. Non-reflective, soc...

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<br /><br />Our guide is a co-traveler on the path to truth.  He or she is striving just as hard as we are to understand and resolve his or her defences.  Childhood traumas that have been repressed in the unconscious must be brought into full awareness—enlightenment—before we can become, or attain, a perfect guide.  But this is a process.  It takes time.  Even if we, or our guide, regress into old, negative behaviours or attitudes, we remember that the essence of each of us is perfect.  At the core of each is truth.  If eruptions of negativity occur, we understand that the source is a wounded child within.  It is the job of each guide to monitor these slips and own them—and then to resume consciously evolving to truth.<br /><br />The reality is that most people skip the arduous preparation necessary to become a guide—the lonely solo journey to an autonomous self.  Instead of resolving childhood issues .  Finding a seemingly acceptable guide is done in place of finding our child within.  Unconsciously we employ the fantasy that Prince or Princess Charming will save us from all that was wrong in our past, especially our denied childhood needs.  This imperfect guide becomes the object of magical rescue or, in time, if the fantasy of magical rescue wears thin, of murderous revenge.<br /><br />Another common wayward path that many people take with a guide is to assume a façade of normalcy and bourgeois conformity.  While all is well on the surface, turmoil roils beneath the surface of their complacent life.  The denied traumas of childhood do not go away, but manifest discretely in emotional compromise, stunted creativity, depression, damaged children, addictions of various sorts, and physical and emotional illness.  These all exist to mute our denied feelings and wounds.<br /><br />We must undergo extensive healing of childhood despair—which we all carry—to not play out our damage with our guides.  Yet in a world full of compromised liars who make up the norm it is a great comfort and aid to seek truth with an evolved guide.  With strong boundaries at our side we often can find great value in co-travelers who remind us that our journey is real and that our goal is not to conform to the comforts of psychic sleep, but to grow into consciousness and to fulfil the perfection planted in us at birth.<div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">If all our thoughts, beliefs, decisions and behaviour ultimately depend on neural processes and environmental factors over which we have no direct control or access, can it be said that we have anything like a free will, as it has been traditionally conceived? Is there any way for us to think, choose, or act that isn’t determined by processes outside of our control? This is an excellent reason to start The Ten Stages study course that deals with the intuitive voice and the child within. We do not deal with the inner child which is governed by the parental voice. But the CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides our life.We are the child within lying on the bed, not the parent gazing in from the door at an inner child.....</span><br />
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UPDATED: The CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides your life.

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We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled.

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We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there lies a...

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We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there lies a thick wall buffering our hidden, vulnerable self from the sharp and often honest edges of the world.</div>
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The Recovered are much less protected, but have such a deep core of self-love that they can defend themselves gently. The exact nature of who we are is often self deluded bathed in mumbo jumbo and spiritual claptrap changing from minute to minute as we struggle to define this particular minute that disappears as we merge into the next.</div>
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Admit to god, to ourselves, and to other human beings the exact nature of who we are if only we could we will aways be a blindman in a darkened room flexing an imagination that conjures up a new disassociational escape into the past or future scrabbling at the door to an-others perceived sanity.Is that Buddha or Christ knocking at your door, or is it just another recovery mirage tantalisingly just out of site.Ever so softly tapping at our closed door of reason.</div>
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We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled.

We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there lies a...

We try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves.

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We try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves.

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Re-parenting the burgeoning consciousness of the child within his own self is painful

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sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognised in our bigger problems with joy and pleasure?

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sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognis...

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sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognised in our bigger problems with joy and pleasure? Sex typically symbolises pleasure at the lowest level, the first and second chakra. Sex also symbolises the uniting of the male and female in the dynamic of creation. Your sex can reveal your desire (for instance) to abuse or repress the female aspect. Ultimately we seek a balancing of the male and female, the yang and the yin. This balance we must find within ourselves.<div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognised in our bigger problems with joy and pleasure?

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The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing.

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Title: The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing.
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The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing. To grieve. To feel. To learn your internal stumbling blocks...

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The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing. To grieve. To feel. To learn your internal stumbling blocks. To know yourself. To devote yourself mind, body, and spirit to resolving your deepest emotional conflicts through unearthing your buried traumas and untangling their hidden webs. To build a strong core of a true self, a connected relationship with the best of you in your inner breast, and then to confront your perpetrators either in person or in your own private psyche. This is to heal. Perhaps this healing process will involve masturbation somewhere along the way, though as it progresses it becomes much less likely. Healthier people do not like to act out. It hurts them.</div>

The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing.

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Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep

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Title: Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep
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Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep, lulling your unresolved childhood traumas back into their repressed caves in the unconscious. But...

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Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep, lulling your unresolved childhood traumas back into their  repressed caves in the unconscious. But healing ultimately saves your life, whereas masturbation ultimately leads you nowhere – and keeps you stuck in your misery, and keeps you repetitively acting out the worst of your childhood history.</div>

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Masturbation is risky for anyone with unhealed childhood wounds that is, all of us who are not yet fully recovered.

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Masturbation is risky for anyone with unhealed childhood wounds that is, all of us who are not yet fully recovered. Although our biology plays a part in motivating us to express ourselves sexually, our unresolved emotional issues push us far more strongly. We are emotionally motivated to masturbate by a craving to play out unconscious dynamics of parental rescue in an attempt to bypass the healing process.<div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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In the reinstatement of the valued child within

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In the reinstatement of the valued child within we have to be careful of the dropping of the “old self” that we sometimes are calling freed...

In the reinstatement of the valued child within

In the reinstatement of the valued child within we have to be careful of the dropping of the “old self” that we sometimes are calling freed...

If you drop the old self, the traumas are gone automatically.

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Title: If you drop the old self, the traumas are gone automatically.
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Let me tell you just one thing: as long as I was working with the old traumatised self, as long as I was trying to change or improve the o...

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Let me tell you just one thing: as long as I was working with the old traumatised self, as long as I was trying to change or improve the old self, I was getting nowhere. I had to drop it. And when I did, I was actually free. Of course, it picked it up again because I am so accustomed to live with my suffering. It was very strange to experience such freedom. I didn’t know what to do with it. It was something new (or something very old but forgotten). My system got confused and frightened…</div>
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In short, emotional traumas are connected with our old self. By dropping the old self, traumas disappear automatically (you don’t have to deal with all the details from the past). The traumas are a part of the package called self. If you drop the old self, the traumas are gone automatically.</div>
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If you drop the old self, the traumas are gone automatically.

Let me tell you just one thing: as long as I was working with the old traumatised self, as long as I was trying to change or improve the o...

When we are dissociated/escaping we are not at peace with ourselves at all.

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When we are dissociated/escaping we are not at peace with ourselves at all.

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The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas

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The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas in an unconscious urge to somehow solve them. The repetition ...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas in an unconscious urge to somehow solve them.  The repetition compulsion is an urge that so often dooms us, because it, like all bad decisions, just sends up careening back into more pain, suffering, and trauma.</span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas

The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas in an unconscious urge to somehow solve them. The repetition ...

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We who deny our deep inner world never acknowledge the source of these conflicts—our own childhoods.

Our guide is a co-traveler on the path to truth.

UPDATED: The CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides your life.

We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled.

We try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves.

Re-parenting the burgeoning consciousness of the child within his own self is painful

This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study The 10 Stages.

sexual energy is like a microcosm of the larger energy of life, and that dysfunction in our sexual energy can be related to and recognised in our bigger problems with joy and pleasure?

The way to deal with normal sexuality in a healthy way is to keep on healing.

Masturbation puts you nicely to sleep

Masturbation is risky for anyone with unhealed childhood wounds that is, all of us who are not yet fully recovered.

Dissing/disassociation is acquired awareness of what hurts a logical solution to an open question.

In the reinstatement of the valued child within

If you drop the old self, the traumas are gone automatically.

When we are dissociated/escaping we are not at peace with ourselves at all.

The repetition compulsion is the inner drive we have to reenact our traumas

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