We try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves.

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihYeHK7sYv9tP_HAihum9J7XAlqMMWhZFhx6WpljRlUK2Urqtn4AHn3PC_cHNa7LQz3dy5NDHuv2mohanEJmLF-xOetqsqhDSzkc_FLBGrKiZTgtlMuVjoebKAqegczAWuBX-B60nkADA/s1600/1-backlgrond+emotions+use.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihYeHK7sYv9tP_HAihum9J7XAlqMMWhZFhx6WpljRlUK2Urqtn4AHn3PC_cHNa7LQz3dy5NDHuv2mohanEJmLF-xOetqsqhDSzkc_FLBGrKiZTgtlMuVjoebKAqegczAWuBX-B60nkADA/s1600/1-backlgrond+emotions+use.jpg" width="200" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17.9400005340576px;">The illusions of the “special relationship” and the need to constantly search for completion. Says that we try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves. They become our replacement. And we become theirs. We are not really in love with them, but with our fantasy. We do not see them. We see only what we want them to be. It’s a fantasy. Every fantasy, through the belief that it is attainable, removes our own sense of completion. Fantasy deprives us of knowledge. The way out, is to value reality above fantasy.</span></div>

We try to find in the other what we have discarded in ourselves.

The illusions of the “special relationship” and the need to constantly search for completion. Says that we try to find in the other what ...

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