Recovery is the conscious awareness of truth.This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study TENSTAGE+ STAGES CHILD WITHIN EVENTS AND FORUM
Weaponising Mindfulness: If this is a selfless act, why are we focusing on ...: If this is a selfless act, why are we focusing on ourself? On our own feelings of safety and well-being? On our own happ…
Weaponising Mindfulness: Loving-Kindness Practice is a Radical Act of Self-...: Heartscaped mindfulness for deep healing of ourselves.As the pace of our lives continues to accelerate, driven by a host…
Weaponising Mindfulness: Kindfulness is not just for stress. We can also ap...: Kindfulness is not just for stress. We can also apply Kindfulness to our daily practice of wellbeing. Begin by noticing …
Loving Kindfulness is the cause of relaxation. It brings ease to the body, to the mind, Lovng Kindfulness allows solutions to happen. As you train the mind, focusing on the breath, allowing the breat…
“Truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies.” – Ralph Waldo EmersonMirror, mirror on the wall… find the nearest mirror. Look. Keep looking for 3 minutes. Write about what you see.…
When we have Dissociation Disorders and we’re displaying Passive-Aggressive tendencies there are a lot of issues that may affect us.“Individuals with dissociation are vulnerable to anxiety, and depre…
We really need a child within us who loves us fully. We need a child within who understand us fully. We need a child within who can adequately translate the needs behind our cries…and our coughs…and …
Our Recovery is complicated because we pass it through our habitual thought patterns. When we step back from ourselves, recovery becomes simple. There are not many paths to freedom, there is only one…
CHILD WITHINS: Hidden Agenda Workshops: You have big dreams. You feel that you have a big purpose. You know that you can make a massive difference in this world.There’s just one problem – you don’t h…
One of the biggest question at the ten stages is whether we are going to be able to say a hearty yes to our adventure to recover our child within.It is by going down into our child within that we re…
In the Zen tradition, we are reminded that the pathway to enlightenment starts with a beginners mind. It’s all over the wisdom traditions that newness and open-heartedness are the paths to freedom. A…
Most of us are conditioned out of our creativity early when we were taught that if we could not make "good art" as children we should not bother at all. creativity overrides the conformity of what we…
To access Google Hangouts via Gmail you need to have the Chat function enabled - this is the small 'speech bubble' in the bottom, left-hand corner of your Gmail screen. To access Google Hangouts: In …
We are a gentle, moderated friendly and supportive on-line web based community for the discussion of and exploration of recovering relationships related to the ten stages of recovering the self and u…
You've probably heard this “motivational” question before: “How badly do you want it?” As in: “How badly do you want to get into recovery?” “How badly do you want your relationship with you to work?”…
Have you ever had a “reality challenge” from someone you liked and respected, a lot? Maybe they made an observation about your life, or “called you out” for clinging to a particular excuse when you’r…
The 10 Stages 'Child Within' Course enrolment starting next Tuesday 1st of September for the month of September at RANE Middlesbrough - St Mary's Centre 12 o'clock …
To maintain confidence, while still being able to share stagers would be taught that when talking about the group to others you leave all the identifying material about the other member out of the co…
Are you addicted to being angry or sad and dissociated? Do you get connection and attention from people by telling your sad story over and over again – but deep down you know it’s time to change? It’…
VICTIMISED by life, Imagine what life would be like if you lived a day, a week or a month without believing or promoting ONE excuse. What would your life look like? We have some pretty ingrained excu…
Our addictive/dysfunctional behaviour in the past has mystified us – except that everyone, INCLUDING US, can agree two simple facts. FIRSTLY, there’s no addiction without ‘thought disorder’, broken se…
The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of our lives and stop being dependent on others voices for our …
Dissociation within groups (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) mimics enlightenment – but it isn’t enlightenment.People who are dissociated live in great peace. But this is only because they h…
Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet. We are asked to keep a secret. Therapist and agencies alike seem to think this is is a good idea, with the notion that when someon…
“In essence, you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone. True self-esteem and true humility arise out of that realization. In the eyes of the ego, self-esteem and humility are contradictory. In …
We are all creators at the stages, and whether we are creating positively or negatively, we are always creating something. Creating our recovery in the stages requires a consistent state of emotional…
