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We are a gentle, moderated friendly and supportive on-line web based community for the discussion of and exploration of recovering relatio...
“How badly do you want to get into recovery?”
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You've probably heard this “motivational” question before: “How badly do you want it?” As in: “How badly do you want to get into rec...
Have you ever had a “reality challenge” from someone you liked and respected, a lot?
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Have you ever had a “reality challenge” from someone you liked and respected, a lot? Maybe they made an observation about your life, or ...
The 10 Stages 'Child Within' Course enrolment starting next Tuesday 1st of September
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The 10 Stages 'Child Within' Course enrolment starting next Tuesday 1st of September for the month of September at RANE Middl...
Your reaction is yours to share, and the origin of it, the details of it, are kept confidential.
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To maintain confidence, while still being able to share stagers would be taught that when talking about the group to others you leave all ...
Are you addicted to being angry or sad and dissociated?
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Are you addicted to being angry or sad and dissociated? Do you get connection and attention from people by telling your sad story over and...
Imagine what life would be like if you lived a day, a week or a month without believing or promoting ONE excuse.
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VICTIMISED by life, Imagine what life would be like if you lived a day, a week or a month without believing or promoting ONE excuse. What ...
Our addictive/dysfunctional behaviour in the past has mystified us
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Our addictive/dysfunctional behaviour in the past has mystified us – except that everyone, INCLUDING US, can agree two simple facts. FIRSTLY...
The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within
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The most important thing for us at the stages is that we are allowed to affirm that our child within will have the power to take charge of...
Dissociation within groups (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) mimics enlightenment – but it isn’t enlightenment.
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Dissociation within groups (being split-off from one’s deepest truth) mimics enlightenment – but it isn’t enlightenment. People who are di...
Stagers "We do not talk about what happens in group." Is the mantra the members recite.
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Stagers are often asked to keep what happens in at the stages quiet. We are asked to keep a secret. Therapist and agencies alike seem...
In essence, you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone
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“In essence, you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone. True self-esteem and true humility arise out of that realization. In the eye...
We are all creators at the stages, and whether we are creating positively or negatively
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We are all creators at the stages, and whether we are creating positively or negatively, we are always creating something. Creating our ...
This weeks Subject for discussion
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A good parent self-reflects, and uses this as her basis for nurturing those less mature on their journey toward autonomy. A good parent ...
Please stop by and introduce yourself here.
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Please stop by and introduce yourself here. How did you find us? Why did you join? Please stop by and introduce yourself. How did you fi...
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The Forum This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study The 10 Stages. We gather together to suppo...
We who deny our deep inner world never acknowledge the source of these conflicts—our own childhoods.
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The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma. Non-reflective, soc...
Our guide is a co-traveler on the path to truth.
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Our guide is a co-traveler on the path to truth. He or she is striving just as hard as we are to understand and resolve his or her defen...
UPDATED: The CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides your life.
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If all our thoughts, beliefs, decisions and behaviour ultimately depend on neural processes and environmental factors over which we have ...
We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled.
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We who are experiencing the denial of our dissociated recovery are not easily emotionally ruffled. But this is only because there lies a...
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